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Saturday 14 September 2013
CASES YOU SHOULD BE SUSPICIOUS OF
Hello again. Relationships are fragile as eggs hence should be delicately kept by the couples involved,visible to them both. Today i want to highlight cases where you should be suspicious of your spouse.
* THEY HAVE PERFECT EXCUSES FOR EVERYTHING:- Some might argue that this isnt a case but i beg to differ. It reminds me of the adage that says practise makes perfect. When your spouse always have an explanation for a text to a lady on his sent item or the guy you saw her with in the dark alley or why the number he saved with peter has a ladies voice, and all their explanation adds up,you should be scared. No one it that perfect
* THEY WOULD RATHER NOT HOLD HANDS WITH YOU IN FAMILIAR ENVIRONMENTS:- Ever ask yourself why he/she never wants to hold your hands around campus? Perhaps is to avoid being caught. Sometimes they come up with cheesy excuses like they don't want to be the public person for reasons like, a family member or their cleric could see them. Now that's just cheesy. Even the pope could hold a lady's hand and no one would say a thing
* THEY NEVER GIVE/BUY YOU A PRESENT UNLESS YOU ASK:- They probably have someone else they spend their money on. It isn't easy to spend for two persons. If eventually they buy you a present,it would be belated and something cheap too.
* THEY RARELY CALL OR TEXT:- Where they is the relationship when they call or text you like a mere acquitance. They must be calling someone regularly and it isnt you. Or perhaps your voice just doesnt do it for them anymore. Sorry.
* THEY NEVER WANT YOU MEETING THEIR FRIENDS:- They might give you excuses like i don't trust you with him/her when what they really mean is,i don't trust that they would keep their mouth shut. Getting close to their friends means you could learn more about them; more than they want you to know.
* DATE NIGHT IS NEVER ON WEEKENDS:- When they prefer to take you out on mondays or tuesday when the nicest days are on weekends. The question is,who do they take out on weekends? Who goes clubing alone?
* TEXT MESSAGE BOX IS ALWAYS EMPTY:- It's either this or they code their phones. Why are the only text messages on the phone from their sim service providers? I wonder.
I think i should halt here for now. Did i struck a nerve?
Thursday 12 September 2013
SIGNS THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAVE HIT AN ICE BURG
Hi guys it's me again. Relationships are like the game called 'tug of war'. It depends on the nature of rope you use; soft or hard,short or long. I won't go into details about that in this article. But in this article,i will be sharing signs that spells doom for your relationship; please don't hate me.
* NO MORE TEXTING :- In most new relationship,texting is a tradition and there's something about stopping tradition;it's either for the better or the worse. Text messages bring closure. It reminds your spouse that you exist and vice versa. Now if your relationship had not previously cultivated the habit of texting,no qualms but if it had been a tradition but stops abruptly,then something is definitely wrong,believe me.
* COMPLIMENTS RUN DRY :- When you are being complimented,it means that your partner sees something(s) they admire. Believe me if you are in a stiff relationship where there isn't frequent exchange of compliment,you are in no relationship. When i say compliments,i mean compliments as: 'you are so pretty today' 'you smell good' 'i love your top' and bla bla bla.
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* FREQUENT COMAPARISON:- This is the most devastating of them all. When your partner stays stuffs like: 'if you could be more like him/her' ' john doesn't behave that way' then there's a colossal problem. I have to be blunt here. When this happens,your partner doesn't really want you anymore because he/she have seen something better than what got them attracted to you in the first place.
I have got to stop here now before i ruin a relationship. Remember that no matter how bad it is,you can fix it. Stay on. I have a suprise for you
Tuesday 10 September 2013
BEFORE YOU START BLOGGING
Hi guys. How is blogosphere treating you?
I want to take you down a few points you must note before you start blogging.
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* FIND YOUR UNIQUE NICHE:- We keep telling ourselves that we are certainly extra good in a particular field but the truth is we don't really believe that. Just incase you don't,let me reinterate that YES we have we have (a) unique genre(s). Your blog isn't succeeding because you aren't operating on your unique genre and you aren't operating on it because you don't know it. Here's why you don't know it:
+ You don't pay attention to details: of courses that's the marking of a typical human being. But if you must standout,you must be different. Think,what is that awesome thing that you do that earns you praises from those around you? Why not blog on it?
You write juicy stories,why not create a literature blog?
You are a great teacher,you really get to your students and love doing it,why not be an education blogger.
You would think every aspect of blogging have been totally covered. You can't be more wrong. There are so many persons surfing and search for what you have to offer. What's stopping you?
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* LEARN TO READ:- Hithero,when i would come across very long articles,i barely brush through them but not now. I have learnt that each time you task your brain harder that its used to,you gain some more intellect. As a blogger,you shouldn't be ordinary. A blogger could pass for a journalist. You must be learned to write insightful articles. Grab materials online and offline on your genre and broaden your tentacles.
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* GET MODELS:- Getting models don't neccessarily mean persons but also sites,magazines,etc. One plus one is two. If you are a sport blogger you would probably be a reader of sites like goal.com and sportsmoles. Reading their writeups could create certain awareness in you. It could give you a new sense of style. A hybrid way of writing and hybrids are great.
Aaah am going to stop here for now. You may want bookmark this page because am just getting started. It's not just about blogging. Tophike is more!
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